We sat down to a lovely table, brimming with green bean casserole, creamed spinach, rice and beans, apple cider, and mango cobbler. We said grace (or thanks?) with 3 of our local friends and dug in.
Plans were to head to Lethem for Thanksgiving with fellow volunteers (a meal which boasted treats from Brazilian supermarkets and shared with plenty of laughter). Just a week and a half before, Chris and I were in Lethem to pick our grant for World AIDS Day. When it was time to leave for Aishalton, we dutifully sat in front of Shirley’s, with our bags, waiting for a vehicle. There we sat: reading and finishing books, playing cards, and trying to sleep on the short concrete wall. Cars sped by and kicked up Lethem’s red dust, which blew over and settled on us.
After waiting for 4 days, we finally left Lethem at 1am in an SUV with 5 children, 5 volunteers, and 1 driver. It was a long trip back to Aishalton, overnight and overcrowded. We were just not up for another trip to Lethem, even for a rousing Thanksgiving.
Without much foresight or planning, we set out to have a Thanksgiving at home. We couldn’t find a pumpkin, only mangoes. There were no potatoes, no chicken. So, we cooked up our rice and beans, borrowed an oven for properly baked green bean casserole and cobbler, and whipped up calilloo into something like creamed spinach.
We invited our good friends Gary and Claudine; we knew they would enjoy the meal. (Gary took an internet phone call from his brother in Montana, USA just before our meal. His brother was enjoying thanksgiving in the states with 5 Guyanese and 2 Trinidadians. Gary informed him he had been invited to Thanksgiving with Americans in Aishalton.) We also invited Nurse Bertha, the smallest yet loudest person in Aishalton. Together, we ate ‘til our “Belly Full.” I contemplated all the things I was thankful for: to be celebrating Thanksgiving with Chris, serving in the US Peace Corps, and our new friends we were beginning to understand and who were starting to understand us.
Now, as I am again in Lethem to pick up a paycheck, I browse the aisles of the shops, walk past piles of toy guns, fake Barbies, and plastic greenery with cheap red ribbons (Christmas overstock circa 1987), I am a little nervous to spend Christmas in Aishalton. It will certainly be more like a traditional Christmas (in a cheap, tacky, consumerist way) than I’d like. Chris and I have agreed: no exchanging of gifts, let’s not try to prop up the day with meaningless social norms. However the day is celebrated, I know it and future holidays will not be as real as my Thanksgiving: when I sat down and shared a meal with the Amerindians.